Let’s be real—most people don’t naturally feel comfortable in front of a camera. Some get nervous, others stiffen up, and the majority probably don’t know what to do with their hands (we’ve all been there, right?). That’s where we, as photographers, come in! We don’t just snap photos; we create an experience where our clients can relax, have fun, and feel their best.
Want to know how to make your sessions enjoyable and unforgettable? Here’s my secret formula for turning your photography sessions into a fun, light-hearted experience that also brings out the best in your clients.
1. Guide Them Before the Session
The fun starts before your clients even step in front of the camera. Preparation is key to ensuring a smooth and enjoyable session.
Start with a style guide. Clients often stress about what to wear, and let’s face it, coordinating outfits is no small feat! A style guide not only simplifies the process but ensures everyone looks cohesive, polished, and aligned with your photography style. For mamas, I love offering access to my client closet—because feeling beautiful in the right outfit makes all the difference in how comfortable and confident they’ll be during the session.
Next, help them choose a location that fits their vision. Don’t just ask for their input; really dig deep into what vibe they want. Is it intimate and cozy? Let’s shoot in-home. Want a wide, open field with golden hour light? I’ve got a few perfect spots. Setting the scene to match their story helps everyone get excited.
And then, my favorite: prep tips! Little things like bringing snacks for the kids or letting them know what to expect will ease any pre-session jitters. Set your clients up for success, and they’ll come in feeling excited instead of anxious.
2. Guide Them Throughout the Session
Even if your style is super candid and laid-back, don’t expect your clients to know what to do without a little direction. That’s where you come in.
Start with something simple to warm them up. I love beginning sessions with walking shots. They’re easy, natural, and help everyone feel like they’re just going for a casual stroll—no pressure, no stiff poses. And guess what? This gives you time to capture some of those beautiful, organic moments while they loosen up.
But even with candid-style photography, you’re still the guide. Think of it like this: You’re creating the space for those candid moments to happen. You don’t just stand back and hope for magic—you gently lead them into moments that feel real. Tell them to “walk toward each other and laugh,” or “give your little one a tickle.” Small prompts make a world of difference in bringing out those genuine smiles and laughter.
3. Keep Your Energy High
You are the heartbeat of the session. Your energy sets the tone for how the session will go, and trust me, it’s contagious.
If you’re excited, having fun, and fully engaged, your clients will naturally mirror that energy. Be personal, talk to them like you would with your friends, and keep things light. The more comfortable they feel with you, the more comfortable they’ll be in front of the camera.
For kids, this is especially true. You’ve got to bring the fun! High-pitched, excited tones will grab their attention, and little games (like the classic “monkey in my camera” trick) keep them engaged and giggling. If you’re having fun, they’ll be more likely to let go and have fun too.
4. Personal Connection is Key
This is what truly elevates a photography session. You’re not just creating pretty pictures—you’re capturing real moments that tell your client’s story. And the best way to get those natural, meaningful images is by creating a personal connection with the people in front of your lens.
Take the time to ask questions, engage with them, and listen. What’s their story? How do they interact with each other? The better you understand them, the better you’ll be able to capture their true essence. Whether it’s a joke, a shared laugh, or just being your authentic self, these personal moments translate into photos that feel genuine and full of life.
5. The Magic is in the Details
What separates a fun session from a memorable one are the little things—those extra touches that make the experience feel thoughtful and personal.
Maybe it’s the way you direct them with confidence and excitement, or how you pay attention to the smallest details—like adjusting a hair strand that’s out of place or making sure mom’s dress flows perfectly. Maybe it’s reminding them to take a breath and enjoy the moment. These seemingly small details add up, and by the end of the session, your clients will feel like they’ve just spent time hanging out with a friend.
It’s All About the Experience
At the end of the day, it’s not just about the photos. It’s about creating a session where your clients feel special, seen, and celebrated. When they walk away, they should feel like the entire experience was tailored just for them—and that’s what leads to those joyful, heartfelt images.
So next time you’re prepping for a session, remember: guide them from the very beginning, keep your energy high, connect on a personal level, and focus on making it a fun and meaningful experience. And if you need more tips on how to elevate your sessions, check out my mini posing guide, where I dive even deeper into creating joyful, authentic moments with your clients.
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